There’s many families out there with a few religious holier than thou members i it waiting for the chance to tell you about all the reasons you’re going to hell. Dealt with a few of those, but the real irritating fuckers, the ones I like to ignore are the better than you hicks. People can be smart, and come from anywhere. The city, the country, a penthouse, or a shack providing they WANT to learn. Providing they find a way to do it.
Then………there are hicks. Ones that are perfectly fine staying right where they are and …ok so these are the people you find that are the most judgemental and racist. They know what they have learned from the farm or country side and that’s it. There minds are small and their mouths huge.
ENTER Julie’s brother. Complete with a twang worse than Reba McIntire. Eight years younger than his sister. Meaning his was a minor when Julie and I hooked up. I’m from the south. I do NOT have hick twang. Why he’s never tried to speak better, who knows. Lazy I guess.
WHY does he rub me the wrong way? We know it doesn’t take much to rub Andy the wrong way.
Oh let me fill you in. THis ass munch after reaching adulthood decides he doesn’t feel I’m right for Julie. (Mind you, we are happy together. Then and now) but he decides because we went through a rough time(financially) he’s going to call and speak his mind. Needless to say he does and let’s this be known – horrible things he said to his sister. Mean, spiteful, and he did the same about me.
Now I can take a lot, usually follow it up with some sarcastic remark and move on, but this fat dickey doo hick was calling things and didn’t think to clean his own backyard.
He was married to a woman (they had three kids) and every day dumped the kids off on Julies mother. Every day. His wife would not cook for the kids, and when the first one was born, and came to her bedroom hungry in the morning, she put the kid out of her room, shut the door, and went back to sleep. Leaving Julie’s mother to do the cooking. OH did I mention they were living with his mom? Yes, yes they were, yet the super trucker still felt a need to call and berate Julie and myself. Turned her father against her for a year.
In the end what I knew was happening, did surface. His wife cheated frequently, never too care of their kids, and finally left HIM. He let her stay twice before when he found her to be cheating. Once with his buddy since childhood.
He did finally tell Julie he was sorry for what he said, and that’s good, but he has never been man enough to say a damn thing to me.
I don’t have to like him, but it’s proof that some people are happy never stimulating their minds, never growing past being narrow minded, they are happy to be a fucking dick in ignorance. Happy acting stupid yet being unaware they look ridiculous, walking away like a puffed up banty rooster.
I can not stand ignorance. I can not stand those who speak in hate out of hate, and ignorance. Family are suppose to support, and be there for others. I have learned the hard way it’s usually family that will let you down most. I have friends that treat us better than certain members of our families. Blogs aside, where one can type sarcastic, humorous sentences on gold diggers, and annoying neighbors – We live in a world where things are bass ackwards. On days like today it sickens me.
No one knows the meaning of family anymore, and they chose to walk in ignorance never branching out. Content with being “one of those” who would call a good man a N***er instead of calling him a good man. A person that would rather call a gay couple Fags or Dykes than a happy couple.
I have no tolerance for hate, racism, or small minds. If you chose to be that way, don’t spread that shit like a disease. Just stay in the “barn”
In this case, karma took care of his mouth. I’m sure getting divorced, and placing his personal on onlyfarmers.com is helping karma along, and …………..shows he’s still in the same mind set that ruined his life. That hurt his children. He hasn’t changed.
His backyard was full while he was condemning us – all the while psychologically he might as well have en saying those things to himself.
Not a funny humorous post, nothing to make you laugh, but….. hate is taught folks. Small mindedness is learned, and taught as well. No one is BORN this way.
To make that point clear several years sago Julie and I were going to adopt a child. We have an only child but looked into adoption. What did a parent from BOTH of our sides say? “It won’t be black will it?” Its taught! Thank GOD Julie expanded her horizons because those are fighting words with me.
Its taught folks. Wake up.